Tuesday 25 October 2016

9 Money Habits That Can Help You Build Wealth

While a six-figure inheritance or high-paying job can land you in the top 1% of earners, it’s the little things—your money habits—that often make the difference between a life of prosperity and one of constant financial stress.
Taking inventory of your recurring subscriptions and services is just one habit that can get you on the road to better fortune.For example, “I do a periodic review of all the subscriptions I have—the ones that hit my credit cards each month,” says Blaylock. “You’d be surprised at how many subscriptions we all have and how many go unused. You could create some significant savings each month just by looking at those things.”
“If you look at the average amount of money you will earn over your lifetime, and figure out how many years you are working—most people earn more than a million dollars over their working life but very few people become millionaires,” says Nancy Butler, a Certified Financial Planner™. “How they manage what goes through their fingers usually makes the difference.”
So what are these easy changes that can help move you further along the road to prosperity? We asked two financial planners for their favorites.

1. Reverse Your Thinking

We know: After taxes are taken out and the bills are paid, your paycheck can seem a little anemic—which can make the idea of having to save for retirement too seem like a real stretch. But to build wealth, a change in mindset is required. Namely, instead of spending the rest of your take-home pay, you’d actually take another cut of your paycheck and put it toward your biggest financial goals.
“Most people spend some money, pay their bills and save what’s left,” says Butler. “And that’s backwards: You should be saving for your financial goals first, paying your bills and and then consider spending the money you have leftover.”  Another trap is putting your good money habits off till “later,” when life will get easier. The thing is, somehow the minute your income increases, the demands on your money seem to as well.
Now, keep in mind, we’re not suggesting you sock all of your money away and live on rice cakes. As Blaylock puts it: “I’m not asking you to put $1,000 away a month, I’m asking you to put away $50, or a small amount that you can afford. We really can’t underestimate the power of starting small, because most of the time that momentum builds, and once we see progress, we tend to repeat behaviors.”

2. Look Where You Want to Go

Just as performance athletes imagine themselves making the shot over and over again—check out this study for how goal setting improves motivation in athletes—knowing what you want your money to do for you gives your goals a better chance of being reached.
To get going on saving for the future, financial experts often suggest having a five-year plan, where you create specific money goals you’d like to achieve in five years and what you need to achieve those goals. For example, saving six months of income for an emergency fund, or saving for a big event, like a down payment on a house.
“Anytime we have a specific goal in mind, that helps us to save,” says Blaylock. “Whether that goal is emergency savings, or saving for a trip, or saving for college, it doesn’t matter.”

3. Adopt Your Own Private Mind Tricks

What if not spending $1,000 on a designer purse or new must-have gadget were as easy as following a rule that dictates you can’t spend more than $300 on something that isn’t essential to your life? The good news is you can create financial rules just like that for yourself; in fact, doing so can be a great habit to get into.
Also known as “heuristics,” these rule-of-thumb strategies we create for ourselves—such as not spending more than $15 on an item of baby clothing, or more than $50 on a pair of shoes—can help simplify the many choices we make in a day. Behavioral economists believe that adopting good heuristics can help one develop good money habits (see this piece for more on how and why they work).
If creating a great heuristic seems like an overwhelming task, Blaylock suggests starting with something simple, such as eating out only twice a week, or “not getting a cart at Target,” a heuristic that helped one of his colleagues save money.

4. Live Like a “Secret” Rich Person

For some, the image of a millionaire conjures visions of sprawling mansions and shiny Bentleys. But most millionaires don’t live large like that—rather, they tend to live well below their “means” and do more saving than spending. In other words, they’re not flashing their money, according to Dr. Thomas J. Stanley, co-author of “The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy.” Stanley’s book, which details more than two decades worth of surveys and personal interviews with millionaires, reveals that much of the wealth in America is more often the result of hard work, diligent savings, and living below your means.
Las Vegas–based David Sapper, who owns a successful used car business, and his real-estate broker wife make a combined income of $500,000 per year. Yet they live like “secret” rich people, only spending $2,500 per month on all bills and extracurricular expenses like eating out, unlike many of their peers. By putting 90% of his income into savings and investments, Sapper says he’ll be able to retire early.
One man who owns a successful used car business and his real-estate broker wife make a combined income of $500,000 per year. Yet they live like ‘secret’ rich people.
His advice? “Find the point that you get what you need and you’re happy and comfortable, and just stay there,” says Sapper. “I had an ‘aha!’ moment when I was watching MTV, and LL Cool J was saying, ‘I lease a Honda Accord for $399 a month,’ while other rappers are going broke.”

5. Tackle Retirement Now

If you’re in your twenties or thirties, retirement can seem eons away—and saving for it might not seem like a priority. It’s easy to understand: In between paying to attend weddings (which average something like $600 per guest), saving for a down payment on a home, and using anything leftover to put toward “necessities” like vacation, how are you supposed to save anything for retirement?
Unfortunately the later you start saving, the more you’ll have to save. But the sooner you sock money away, the more time it has to compound and grow.
If, for example, you’re 30 and putting $50 a month into a retirement account with a 7% rate of return, that $50 a month would turn into $56,000 in 30 years, says Blaylock. Should you wait to age 40, you would need to contribute $110 per month to get to that same goal. This is because your money has less time to grow which minimizes the impact of compound interest. (For more on compound interest and why losing time on retirement can hurt you, check out “The Secret of Retirement Savings: You Can’t Make up for Lost Time.”)

6. Know What’s Coming in, and What’s Going Out

Most of us have good intentions when it comes to saving money. But if you don’t know what’s coming into your bank account and what’s going out, chances are you don’t know how much you can devote to your goals. And most people generally don’t track their income and spending, says Blaylock. “It really is shocking to me that clients I work with don’t always review their pay stub,” he says.
You can track your expenses for free with an app like LearnVest’s that helps you budget, set goals and save. Remember: Knowledge is the first step to lasting change.
“If I don’t know how much you spend on eating out, how can I expect you to change that?” says Blaylock. “You kind of have to become the chief financial officer of your household.”

7. Getting Out of Debt

Everyone has debt at some point in their life. But if you have bad debt—not student loans and mortgages, but credit card debt, where you’re paying high monthly interest rates—nixing it and getting out of the habit of being a debtor should be priority number one. “I want somebody to develop a plan to have them out of that debt in 36 months or less,” says Blaylock. “It’s hindering you from making progress on your other goals.”
At the same time, emergencies happen—and a $600 car repair can hit anytime. That’s why Blaylock advises putting half the money you could put into paying down debt into an emergency savings account. So, for example, instead of paying $600 toward credit card debt, consider putting $300 toward emergency savings and $300 toward credit card payments. While this means it will take longer to get out of credit card debt, you’ll have money stored up for an emergency.
“Credit card debt is a result of the ‘uh-oh’ moments,” says Blaylock. “We still don’t have any savings built up because we put it all toward our credit card. So while you’re also working to pay your credit card down, you should consider putting an equal amount to an emergency savings account. I often tell clients that their emergency savings are their insurance policy against falling into credit card debt ever again.”
After you get out of debt, Butler suggests only having one credit card, and come to an agreement with yourself (or your significant other) that it will only be used during an emergency. “Let’s say the car broke down and you can’t fix it—that’s an emergency,” says Butler. “Something’s on sale, and I know I’m going to need it in six months—that’s not an emergency.”

8. Increasing Your Earnings

There are two ways to increase your net worth: Spend less or save more money. “And spending less is only part of it – you have to save, and when appropriate invest, the rest,” says Natalie Taylor, a CFP® with LearnVest Planning Services.“Earning more often doesn’t lead to higher net worth because lifestyle expenses grow along with it.” 
But if you grow your income, and set some of those earnings aside, you can grow your bottom line. Aside from getting a raise or winning the lottery, there are a few ways to get more money flowing in.
One suggestion: Diversify your income streams by working a second, part-time job doing something you love. As far as earning more, there are a few things one can do. “For those who cannot cut their expenses enough, I love the idea of working part-time,” says Blaylock. “I have a great friend who is an attorney. She has a big travel habit that she is unwilling to pull back on. So, she works at a flower shop on Saturdays during wedding season. It’s a win for everyone: The flower shop has a dependable employee, and my friend loves flowers so she does not think of it as work.”
Another idea: Look for investment opportunities—perhaps with the help of a financial planner—or other ways to get income to come to you. “I think retirement income should come from multiple sources such as rental income, part-time income and retirement assets,” says Blaylock.

9. Consider Consulting an Expert

There are times in life when consulting an expert pays you back in spades. Even if you’re doing everything you can to start good money habits, using a qualified financial planner can help keep you on track—and help you see the big picture.
“Often times most of us are too emotionally involved in our finances to make really good decisions,” says Blaylock. “So what you’re looking for when you’re getting a professional is accountability and an outside view of what you’re doing. I look at your finances very objectively, where you can’t because you’re that person.”
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Tuesday 19 August 2014

10 easy ways to make money in 2014

You’ve heard it before: Resolutions are for quitters. So don’t burden yourself with a list of useless declarations about not spending money in 2014.
You’re not likely to keep them anyway, according to the University of Scranton, which has found that of the 45% of Americans who make New Year’s resolutions, a mere 8% actually achieve them.

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Instead, embrace tiny habits that may not necessarily help you lose weight, learn Mandarin or get organized but, with little to no effort, will fatten your bank account.
Track your spending. It’s easy if somewhat arduous to jot notes on a smartphone or tablet every time you put gas in the car or stop for a coffee, but if you do, you will be amazed at how quickly money can slip through your hands. There are sites you can turn to for help, like Mint.com, Quicken or Geezeo, that will do the math for you. Most banks offer tracking and budgeting services through sites like these too.
Once you really see where the cash — and credit card transactions — are going, it will be easier for you to identify and cut wasteful spending.
Balance cash in, cash out. Now that you’re seeing where the money is going, chart it against your other expenses. We’re talking about everything from housing, food and clothing to movie-going, dining out and getting manicures and pedicures. It’s pretty simple to calculate if you’re spending more than you’re bringing in. Now you can see just how, where and why you’re doing it. Acknowledging the problem is the first step to solving it.
Top three financial resolutions for 2014
New Year’s is a good time to recommit to financial goals that keep you and your family on sound financial ground. Daniel Lippman joins Lunch Break with a look at money resolutions for 2014.
Be realistic. If you absolutely don’t see yourself brewing your own coffee every day — despite the estimated $2,400 in annual savings — limit the java stop to once a day, rather than twice, or to a less-expensive coffee shop.
Do the same with savings and paying off debt. Socking away $50 a week is psychologically easier than $200 a month, though the result is the same. Paying off a $2,500 credit-card bill can be done in $500 increments.
Automate it all. Raise your hand if you promised yourself that you’d transfer money from one account to a savings account and, oops, just forgot. Or planned on paying that bill by the due date but that too slipped your mind. Automate those duties so you don’t end up making excuses when you don’t get to it yourself.
Aim to be fee-less. Interest fees, late fees, ATM withdrawal fees, checking-account fees — heck, any banking fees can be avoided by choosing the right financial institution and products, and automating bill payments. And if you’re lousy at balancing your accounts and don’t have a cushion account to cover you, make sure you have overdraft protection on your accounts.
Cut the cord. Cable TV can be a costly proposition and there are a number of ways you can cut the cord without missing out on “Homeland” or replays of “Breaking Bad,” though live sports can be an issue. But you don’t even have to give up the cable to cut the bills. Cable companies, which are losing customers to the likes of Hulu and Roku, are willing to negotiate to retain customers. Just take the time to call them, or send them a tweet.

Negotiate other bills. Follow the cable lead and make some calls to rework other monthly tabs like credit-card interest rates, auto and home insurance costs, even cell phone bills.
“Carve out an hour or two at the beginning of this year to check the rates you are paying on all your bills,” says Gerri Detweiler, director of consumer education for Credit.com. “That time can pay off handsomely all year long.”
Chances are there are untapped discounts or new offers available. And if they can’t slash some of your costs, you might get more bells and whistles, which makes the dollars spent a better value. Check out competitor’s promotions too and ask your provider to match the prices.
And an extra bonus, if you can cut the interest rates on your credit-card bills, you can get out of debt that much quicker. That’s assuming, of course, you aren’t running the bills up as you pay them off.

Rethink 2013 offers. There’s probably a few “free trial” or “0% one-year interest-rate” offers you grabbed in 2012 and 2013 that have now lost their luster. You can find another credit-card promotion like that and transfer your balance or make sure that you never carry a balance month to month since that 0% is probably now about 15% or higher.
Improve your health. Every year, losing weight takes the top spot on most American’s New Year’s list, followed closely by vows to quit smoking or drinking too much. It’s no wonder, considering that not only can it improve your disposition and physical well-being, it will make an impression on your wallet.
“Studies show that being overweight or smoking translates to thousands of dollars in additional medical costs over the course of your lifetime,” says Odysseas Papadimitriou, chief executive of CardHub.com. “And that doesn’t even speak to lost productivity due to a lack of energy, the added insurance burden, or money wasted on quick-fix health-improvement schemes.”
Nor does it speak to that big chunk of money, estimated at upwards of $3,600 a year for a one-pack-a-day smoker, that you’ll keep in your pocket.
Find ways to stay motivated. Making a plan to cut spending and save money is easier said than done, so it’s important to make yourself accountable. Start by telling your family and friends what your goals are and ask them to help you keep it up. Heck, announce it to the masses on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram for crowd-sourcing encouragement. There’s nothing like a thumbs up or smiley face to keep you going.
http://www.marketwatch.com/story/10-easy-ways-to-make-money-in-2014-2014-01-02

Tuesday 5 August 2014

How To Increase YOUR Personal Performance

“It is not only by the questions we have answered that progress may be measured, but also by those we are still asking. …knowledge alters what we seek as well as what we find.” – Freda Adler
This is ONE of the most IMPORTANT tools you may EVER use!!!
I recommend you spend time each month questioning YOUR LIFE. Take an honest appraisal of what’s REALLY going on with the help of the 7 P’s Personal Performance Process. It will give you clarity, insight, solutions and priorities which you can begin to take conscious action.
Time to make sure your ship is steering the right course. I recommend about 1 hour per month and 4 hours per quarter to really review, reflect, re-orient, re-plan, recommit and realize rewards. Ideally take a weekend and have a mini retreat which gives you uninterrupted time. This can be such a powerful, enlightening and rewarding session.
Please do not procrastinate it away. You are the only one who can do it.
Spend at least 30 minutes and answer all of the questions below. Be brutally honest with yourself.  These questions catch your blind spots, keep you on track and help improve your habits. When you ask them regularly, you will become more focused, clear, creative, purposeful, aware and balanced.
The 7 P’s Personal Performance Process:
Patterns, processes, procrastination – habits
- Where can I be more effective in what I am doing?
- What 5 things have I been procrastinating?
- What are my time wasters?
- How can I enhance my inter-personal skills?
Problems, past, pain
- Where am I vulnerable?
- Where do I hold myself back?
- What am I afraid of?
- Where do I not like myself?
- What stresses me?
- For what problems must I ask for solutions?
Perceptions and perspectives of myself and others
- What are the hidden agendas of my boss or partner or family?
- What contacts or friends do I want to develop more?
- What negative or limiting thoughts keep jumping into my mind?
- What key choices must I make?
Prosperity
- How can I increase my abundance?
- In what areas should I obtain more learning?
- What specific actions should I take to be more productive at work?
- What important project have I been putting off?
Principles and values
- What 3 areas in my life must I recommit to?
- Where must I clarify my stand or position?
- What deeds or actions must I forgive or accept?
- What must I do to bring more balance into my life?
- What value is most important for me to master now?
Purpose, potential, passion, power, possibilities, path
- What are my deepest heart-felt desires, dreams and visions?
- Where am I unclear of my life purpose and goals?
- How can I experience a greater sense of meaning in life?
- Where are some opportunities for me to give?
Peace of mind, play, pleasure, pamper
- When do I feel greatest happiness in my life?
- What activities do I find fun, and how can I do more of them?
- What new ideas are teasing me these days?
When you have completed the answers, ask yourself, “What am I missing? Is there anything else?” Use questions often. The subconscious mind is always answering. We must only practice asking and then listening.
INSPIRATION
“Questions focus our thinking. Ask empowering questions like: What’s good about this? What’s not perfect about it yet? What am I going to do next time? How can I do this and have fun doing it?” — Charles Connolly
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Thursday 24 July 2014

The Brief Guide to Becoming Wealthy

Wealth is not his that has it, but his that enjoys it.”
- Benjamin Franklin
A group of professional 20-somethings visited their favorite professor from university at his home. They complained about the stresses of young professional life and how hard it was to adjust to the rat race. The professor listened quietly and then asked them if they would like some coffee. They said yes.
He made some coffee and got out cups for everyone. Half of the cups were plain and plastic. The other half were his nicest and most expensive porcelain cups. He then invited the young adults up to pour themselves coffee.
The former students vied for the nice porcelain cups, negotiating, complaining, comparing and evaluating over who got what. Even after they sat down and began drinking the coffee, they were still eyeing each others cups and making jokes or comments about who got the nice ones and who didn’t.
The professor smiled and said, “You see? This is your problem. You are all arguing over who got to drink out of the nice cups, when all you really wanted was the coffee.”

The Definition of Wealth

I don’t own any property. I don’t own a suit, or a watch, or cologne. I don’t own a car. I haven’t owned a television in over 10 years and don’t want one. I have a small suitcase of clothes and a laptop. I consider myself to be an extremely wealthy individual.
That wealth comes from my experience; and the efficiency in which I’ve organized my life to achieve greater experiences.
I believe I come from a unique background when it comes to wealth. I grew up in a family with a lot of money. We had a massive house, swimming pool, expensive cars, expensive vacations. By the time I was eight my brother and I each had our own televisions and video game systems. By the time I was 10, we had our own computers. We each had two bedrooms and our own bathrooms. I attended expensive private schools and was given a car on my sixteenth birthday.
But for most of my childhood and adolescence, my family was miserable. My parents divorced, and my brother and I each went through our own episodes of trouble with the law.
I realize a lot of people grow up with more serious problems. And I don’t want to come across as the spoiled rich kid whining about how “Yeah, dad bought me a car, but he didn’t hug me enough.” Trust me, we have better things to talk about.
The point is I had the opportunity to witness first-hand for the first 20 years of my life that having a lot of money did not necessarily make people happy, and in some cases, it even wedges people apart and tortures them in subtle and silent ways.
Psychological studies on happiness in the past couple decades have supported this. Research shows that money correlates with happiness up until a middle-class income and after that, there’s no correlation between money and happiness. Happiness flatlines.
One recent study even suggests that making more money can decrease how much we enjoy normal, everyday activities, and inspire us to disconnect from those around us. Both of these factors can lead to greater unhappiness.
Now I don’t mean to get preachy. I realize this is a guide to wealth, not some lecture on the vices of greed. I’m not here to lecture you or moralize all day. Making money is great, I wholly endorse it. I love making money.
But it’s important to think about what the point of earning money is. Ideally, we want to make money so we can enjoy the “finer things” in life. What I’m questioning is what those “finer things” in life actually are.
What’s the point in having a gigantic house and a nice car if you’re never home to enjoy them? What’s the point of having a gigantic plasma TV if you have no one to watch it with? Why make $150,000 a year and hate your job, if you could make $75,000 a year and love your job?
Money buys happiness only when it is spent on experiences and earned without costing too much time. This is why I find it less useful to define wealth in terms of money, and define it instead in terms of the quality of life experiences.
Wealth is having the freedom to maximize one’s life experiences.
Money is a requisite for wealth, but so is time and so is efficient use of that time and money. Money gives one opportunities for more experiences. But one must also have the time to pursue those experiences. Having the money to travel to Australia isn’t worth anything if you can’t ever take time off work to go there.
By this definition, a lawyer who works 110-hour weeks and never sees his kids is not rich. But a surf instructor who lives with his Costa Rican wife on the beaches of Ecuador is. Call me a tree-hugging hippy, but I’m interested in overall quality of life experience, not how big the number is that shows up in my bank account. As I’ll explain later, money is something that I try to get rid of, as soon as possible.
I’ve been to 41 countries and dated amazing women from all over the world. I speak four languages, often party on weeknights and wake up whenever I want. I’ve sipped cocktails in the most exclusive casinos of London with Saudi royalty, danced with international models in Singapore, had beers with porn stars in LA and coffee with Pablo Escobar’s brother in Colombia.
And I did all of this for less per year than the cost of a middle-class lifestyle back in the United States.
Money is only as valuable as the experiences it brings you. Experiences create happiness. Money is merely a tool used to achieve greater experience.
To become wealthy requires one to effectively invest their time and money into the most fulfilling experiences possible. This begs the question, which experiences bring the most happiness? Surely watching a Family Guy marathon on television while stuffing your face with Cheetos isn’t as fulfilling of an experience as say, attending a friend’s wedding, or scaling the mountains of Yosemite Park.

Money is meant to be spent.
Money is meant to be spent. You earn money by adding value and experiences to the lives of others and it’s spent to create value and experience in your own. In a way, you can view money as a transference of experience. Through your work you contribute to an enhanced experience in other people’s lives and in turn the money you receive is then spent on enhancing the experience in yours.
Investing money can be useful if one plans on using it for experiences later (i.e., retirement, emergency savings, etc.) or on experiences which will open up more opportunities for greater experiences (education, business investment, training). Investments are only as useful as the future experiences they are likely to bring. So stockpiling more and more money in the bank is counter-productive to building wealth!
Eventually all money is spent on some form of experience, even if that experience is indirect, such as paying taxes or buying insurance (arguably the two least enjoyable ways to spend money). The important question is, if our money buys experience, then which experiences have the highest return on investment in terms of life happiness and fulfillment?
Obviously, this is a really subjective question as everyone has different passions, needs and interests. If you suffer from chronic back pain, then spending thousands of dollars on a fancy orthopedic office chair may be the best purchase of the year for you; yet for me it would be a total waste.
Your fundamental needs take precedence: health, food, shelter. If these three needs are not met, then nothing else is going to make you happy and not having them is going to make you miserable. But assuming you have those needs met, then research indicates that the experiences which create the most happiness are:
  1. New and unique activities.
  2. Shared experiences with others and building relationships.
  3. Passion activities.
So that membership at the rock climbing gym with your friend Jimmy is going to be more enriching and meaningful than the new Lost DVD set. Inviting your neighbors to a fourth of July barbecue in your backyard will be more enriching than watching the parade on television. Saving up for a trip to the beach will be more worthwhile than buying a new couch or upgrading your computer to play the new Everquest game.
I find it most helpful to view all expenditures through the lens of the experiences they bring. A new car brings a certain amount of experiences for the cost. A plane ticket does the same. A new paint job in your living room does the same. A street hot dog when you’re drunk does the same thing (in this case, the experience involves the toilet the next morning).
The problem is many expenditures have “hidden” experiences which we don’t consider. For instance, when you buy a new car, you think about how it will feel to drive to work, what your friends will think of it, the new sound system, picking up a date in it. What you don’t think about is the maintenance required on it, getting stuck in traffic, paying too much for parking, the stress of finding your door dinged one afternoon, the stress of finding parking tickets in your dash, digging it out of snow, the stress of raising gas prices, etc.
What’s also absent is the opportunity costs of that new car. Those car payments each month could go toward new hobbies, new experiences with friends, weekend trips to the beach, or a new guitar (passion activity). What if you could take the bus or metro each morning, avoid traffic, and have enough money to see an extra concert each month and take a vacation to Europe instead of the usual road trip you take to Miami (or wherever)?
I can’t tell you what’s better or worse. We all have our own preferences and values. These are just things to think about. I haven’t owned a car in nine years. The costs of maintaining it far outweigh the value of having it for me, especially when I prefer living in big cities with good public transportation and taxis. Why spend $15,000 on a car, when I can spend an extra $500 a month and live in the best part of town and walk everywhere? Not only am I avoiding the hassles of parking, tolls, gas, tickets, but I’m ALSO saving money, AND I’m in better shape (and helping the environment, which I care about).
I realize a lot of people live in cities that require having a car, but even then, why drive an expensive one? What’s the value-add? Looking cool? A few compliments? Is that really worth the extra $10,000?
Maybe there’s some futon or kitchenette set you feel you MUST have. What experience does it add? What hidden experiences are involved in maintaining them, cleaning them, moving them?
Now imagine that money going towards trip to Aruba with your girlfriend. Or a Vegas trip with your two best guy friends. Or a surprise skydiving trip with your brother for his birthday. Those are experiences you’ll remember and value for a lifetime and will expand your perspective and identity. Sure, there are hidden experiences involved (security line at the airport, arguing with the hotel attendant, getting shoved out of a plane by some asshole), but these are negative experiences that you can share with others. Shit happens. No matter what you do. But the difference between the run-in with the cops in Vegas and some guy backing into your new car at work is that one makes for a great story a year later, the other makes for great stomach ulcers.
And this doesn’t even get into spending money on experiences for OTHER people.
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